
Nancy Davis Kho speaks to schools, professional organizations, women’s groups, libraries, book clubs, executives, educators, and parents about the power of gratitude letters to build connection, resilience, and happiness. With wit, warmth, and the ability to adapt her message to a specific audience and setting, Nancy leaves listeners with an understanding of the science of gratitude letters, and the tools and motivation to write their very first letter. Her book, The Thank-You Project: Cultivating Happiness One Letter of Gratitude at a Time, has been covered in the New York Times, the Washington Post, and Real Simple, and has inspired readers of all stripes to reflect with gratitude on those who have helped, shaped, and inspired them.
As an award-winning podcaster with her Midlife Mixtape Podcast, Nancy also loves talking to audiences about how podcasting can support other creative endeavors and is a powerful tool for building connections.
Whether virtually or in person, Nancy welcomes the chance to help inspire more gratitude, both for the writers of gratitude letters and those lucky enough to receive them!
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Testimonials
“What an honor to host Nancy for a virtual author visit with 8th graders during our 2020 COVID-19 distance learning program. Her dynamic and engaged presentation technique, coupled with messages of love, empathy, connection, and appreciation, inspired our 8th graders to act.”
– Grant Althouse, principal of Kent Middle School, Marin
“The Oakland Chamber of Commerce capped its week of gratitude with Nancy’s presentation. A wonderful opportunity to take a moment, reflect on all the good in our community, and be grateful for being Oaklanders.”
– Barbara Leslie, President & CEO, Oakland Metropolitan Chamber of Commerce
“Nancy’s genuine warmth and humor are a testament to the spirit of The Thank-You Project. We were thrilled to have her launch our Collective Conscience Salon Series — and we concur that there is no better foundation for a kinder world than gratitude.”
– Michela Abrams O’Connor and Shelley Tatum Kieran, Partners, MOCA+
“Thank you, Nancy, for inspiring our inter-generational community on the celebration of Generations’ Day with The Thank-You Project. You guided us not only in writing letters of gratitude on the morning of the event, but also inspired us to make it a beautiful habit, gracing our lives. It is indeed the gift that keeps on giving.”
– Sandra Luna, Head of School, Julia Morgan School for Girls
“Thank you for the really meaningful presentation! I loved your book, and the ideas it created for me. I found your presentation to be a wonderful opportunity to have additional information, along with reminders of the value of gratitude.”
– Lynn Heuss, Des Moines Public Library
“It was such a pleasure to welcome Nancy to lead a Letter Writing Workshop for our community. She is a brilliant guide who speaks from science just as much as she speaks from the heart. Our community left feeling completely inspired by the power of gratitude. Not only is she a blast to work with, but she’s a total pro who is gifted at keeping an audience active and engaged, even over Zoom!”
– Arielle Fuller, Chief Relationship Officer, Parlay House
“In the space of one engaging hour, Nancy generously shared aspects of her personal story, warmly guided us to explore our hearts, and skillfully offered tools for creating letters of gratitude. What could be better than to be granted the superpower of offering true thanks to others? Her book is simply amazing, too—-and should come with a warning: ‘Caution: This could change your life.’”
– Caitlin Morgan, Education Manager, Institute on Aging
"Our attendees at the Happy Mom Summit absolutely loved Nancy's session on gratitude. She inspired and captivated with her relatable experiences and simple action steps. Her talk motivated others to find gratitude in their own lives and share their appreciation for others. Nancy lifted everyone's spirits as she encouraged her process of reframing and noticing the good."
- JoAnn Crohn, M.Ed, NBCT, Founder at No Guilt Mom
Recent Virtual Thank-You Project Events
- MOCA+ SF Collective Conscience Salon
- Institute on Aging
- Parlay House
- Vouch Insurance
- Oakland Metropolitan Chamber of Commerce
- California Writer’s Club – Berkeley Branch
- Kent Middle School, Marin
- Julia Morgan School for Girls, Oakland
- Des Moines Public Library
Recent Conference Engagements
- 2022 Bay Area Book Festival
- 2022 Happy Mom Summit – How to Cultivate More Gratitude in Your Own Life
- 2021 Mom2.0 Summit Everywhere – Podcast Threeway: Three Ways Podcasts Can Expand Your Platform
- ShePodcasts Live 2021 – From Podcast to Print
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